God's Girls Are Not Called To Struggle.

You are not called to live in anger.
You are not called to carry shame.
You are not called to feel alone.
You are not called to live in fear.
You are not called to be controlled by anxiety.


You are called to live free.
Confident.
Whole.
Grounded in truth.

The You Are Not Called series is a powerful collection of Bible studies designed to help women break free from emotional strongholds and step fully into the life God created for them.

The Lies That Most Women Believe...

So many of us love God, serve at church, do our best to raise our children in this crazy world…

Yet, we still feel:

• overwhelmed by anxiety
• stuck in cycles of anger
• weighed down by shame
• isolated and alone
• afraid that we will mess everything up

These patterns don’t just affect how you feel.

They shape how you live.

They keep you small.
They keep you silent.
They keep you stuck.

But they are not your calling.

It doesn't have to be that way.

Here's the truth.

You don’t need more motivation.

You need to understand the truth about your identity and your calling.

Truth that challenges what you’ve believed.

Truth that breaks what’s been holding you back.

Truth that gives you something solid to stand on.

Because when truth replaces lies…

Everything changes.

Change begins with

The You Are Not Called Study Series

This 5-part series directly addresses the emotional strongholds that keep women from living fully, boldly, and unashamedly.

By uncovering and eliminating the strongholds that are separating you from the gifts of God and the life that He has for you, you'll break the tools of the enemy and step into your blessed life.

It's time to put down the weight that you were never meant to carry, sis.

This Isn’t Just Another Bible Study...

Each book is designed to help you actually experience transformation.

Inside each study, you’ll find:

• guided Scripture-based teaching
• reflection and journaling prompts
• practical exercises
• real-life application
• tools to help you move forward

You won’t just read.

You’ll confront what’s been holding you back.
You’ll process it.
You’ll replace it.
And you’ll begin to change.

This Is For The Women Who...

• feel stuck in patterns they can’t break
• struggle with fear, anxiety, anger, or shame
• want real healing — not surface-level encouragement
• are ready to grow spiritually and emotionally
• know God has more for their life

You Were Never Meant To Stay Here.

You were not created to live controlled by fear, shame, isolation, anger or anxiety.

You were created to live free.

This is your invitation to step into that life.

It's time to break free.

you are not called to be

Angry


Do you feel like anger is stealing your joy, damaging your relationships, and holding you back from the life God has for you? Are you a Christian woman who loves Jesus but finds yourself...

  • Snapping at your children over small things?
  • Harboring bitterness about how life has turned out?
  • Fighting constant frustration with yourself and others?
  • Wondering why you can't seem to control your reactions?

Here's the powerful truth: your anger is not too big for God's grace, and your past does not have to dictate your future. Through a unique blend of biblical wisdom and practical strategies, you'll discover:

  • Why traditional anger management techniques often fail Christian women
  • How to break free from generational patterns of anger
  • Practical, biblical strategies that work in real-life situations
  • God's design for your emotional and spiritual freedom

This isn't just another self-help book with empty promises. It's a guided journey to lasting transformation, including life-changing biblical principles you can apply today, weekly action steps and reflection questions, built-in coloring pages for stress relief plus access to online resources and video training.

God has more for you than a life controlled by anger. He's calling you into a life of freedom, peace, and purpose - and this book shows you exactly how to step into it.

you are not called to be

Ashamed

Do you carry a quiet sense that something is wrong with you-even though you love God? Do you struggle to let go of your past, your mistakes, or the belief that you'll never fully measure up?

If you're a Christian woman who finds herself...

  • Replaying past failures, regrets, or choices
  • Feeling disqualified, unworthy, or "not enough"
  • Hiding parts of your story out of fear of judgment
  • Believing God forgives you-but still struggling to forgive yourself

You are not alone.

In Ashamed, you'll learn:

  • The difference between conviction and shame-and why it matters
  • How shame takes root through trauma, sin, relationships, and unmet expectations
  • Why shame keeps resurfacing even after forgiveness
  • Biblical strategies to break agreement with lies about your identity
  • How to step fully into the freedom, confidence, and restoration God offers

Your past does not get the final word. Your mistakes do not define you. God is calling you out of shame and into freedom-and this book will help you answer that call.


you are not called to be

Alone

Do you feel lonely-even when you're surrounded by people? Do you love God, yet still feel unseen, disconnected, or forgotten? If you're a Christian woman who finds herself...

  • Feeling isolated in seasons of grief, transition, or change
  • Longing for deeper connection but unsure how to find it
  • Tired of being strong while feeling emotionally alone
  • Wondering why relationships feel harder than they should

You're not broken. You were not created to do life alone. Loneliness is not a personal failure or a spiritual flaw-it's a signal that your heart was designed for connection, belonging, and love. In You Are Not Called to Be Alone, you'll discover:

  • Why loneliness hurts so deeply-and why it doesn't mean God has abandoned you
  • The difference between being alone and feeling alone
  • How to heal relational wounds that keep you guarded or disconnected
  • Biblical strategies to build healthy, life-giving connections
  • How God meets you personally in seasons of isolation and loss

Inside this study, you'll find biblical teaching you can apply immediately, weekly reflection questions and action steps, and stress-relief coloring pages. Loneliness doesn't get to define your story. God sees you. God is with you. And He is calling you into connection-both with Him and with others. You don't have to walk this season alone.


you are not called to be

Afraid

Does fear quietly control more of your life than you want to admit? Do you trust God-but still feel afraid of what could happen, what you might lose, or what you can't control? If you're a Christian woman who finds herself...

  • Constantly bracing for "what if" scenarios
  • Afraid to take steps forward because of uncertainty or past hurt
  • Living cautiously instead of confidently
  • Struggling to feel safe-even in your faith

You are not alone.

In You Are Not Called to Be Afraid, you'll learn:

  • Why fear feels so powerful-and how it subtly shapes your choices
  • The difference between wisdom and fear-based living
  • How fear takes root after trauma, loss, or disappointment
  • Biblical strategies to break agreement with fear and control
  • How to build courage and trust God-one decision at a time

This study goes beyond inspirational verses and surface-level encouragement. It offers biblical truth paired with practical tools to help you move from fear-driven living to faith-led action. You don't have to live guarded. You don't have to stay stuck.

God is calling you into courage, confidence, and trust-and this book will help you answer that call.


you are not called to be

Anxious

Do you feel like anxiety is stealing your peace, hijacking your thoughts, and keeping you stuck in a constant loop of "what if"? Are you a Christian woman who loves Jesus-but still finds yourself...

  • Overthinking everything (and then overthinking your overthinking)?
  • Waking up with dread, tightness in your chest, or a racing mind?
  • Carrying the weight of everyone else's needs while silently falling apart?
  • Praying... but still feeling like you can't breathe?

In You Are Not Called to Be Anxious, you'll discover:

  • Why anxiety keeps resurfacing-even when you're praying and reading your Bible
  • The difference between managing anxiety and getting free from it
  • How to break agreement with fear, control, and catastrophic thinking
  • Practical tools to calm your body, steady your mind, and anchor your spirit
  • How to build a peace-filled lifestyle that lasts (not just a good week)

This isn't fluffy inspiration or empty "just trust God" advice. It's a guided, faith-based journey to transformation-built for real women with real responsibilities, real triggers, and real pressure. Inside, you'll find biblical teaching you can actually apply, weekly action steps and reflection questions, and stress-relief elements (like coloring pages) to help you slow down, reset, and breathe again.

You don't have to keep living on edge. You don't have to keep surviving. God is calling you into peace. This book will show you how to step into it-one decision, one truth, one day at a time.


Bridget Irby

Author of the You Are Not Called Series

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"Bridget Irby is amazing! She managed to put into this little book lessons that could take many a lifetime to learn. Thought provoking, motivational, and life changing if the reader allows. Love this book!"

- V. Ott